If it is physically safe for everyone, I encourage the entire Brain C-13 Review family to visit their damaged home together. It is okay to do clean up and recovery work together as well, since this storm is bigger than any one person could clean up anyway. Stressful events like this can make a marriage or family stronger than ever, because instead of just one person dealing with the loss, the entire family can join in to deal with it together. It's wrong to play the hero and try to do everything by yourself as a pare not or legal guardian for children because it models being a lone ranger during a crisis.
The lone ranger mentality eventually leads to someone becoming the lonely ranger because you can't get through a crisis alone, nor should you try. We need each other more than ever to successfully manage crisis events like these natural disasters. Another reason why this is so Important is that viewing the destruction firsthand, (obviously in age appropriate ways), is one of the best ways to allow children to see how dangerous storms can be. And the most important reason to model this behavior to our younger kids is because they learn from their earliest childhood that families who stick together through the entire process can get through it better and faster than those who go it alone.
Important Notice: Think about the term, childproofed home as you determine what environment would be safe for your youngest children or grandchildren to be walking through or around. If they normally aren't usually around power tools or gas powered construction equipment like generators or chain-saws, then this is not the time to introduce them to it. Be safe and don't make a stressful situation worse by risking physical injury to yourself, your children or those you care about.